Broken Heart

Valentine’s Day is just past and all you can think of is your ex. You miss them. You want them back. You’re willing to try anything to get them back. So the big question on your mind right now is “How do I use the Law of Attraction to bring my ex back?

Not surprisingly, this question comes up a lot. This and “There is someone specific I can’t stop thinking about and I want to fall in love with me. What Law of Attraction techniques can I use to accomplish this?”

Unfortunately, there is no good answer to either of these questions. At least the answer to these two questions is one that most people asking them┬ádon’t want to hear.

The truth is, the Law of Attraction cannot make someone love you, or have feelings for you if they didn’t have those feelings to start with. The Law of Attraction cannot changes someone’s feelings for you and cannot turn them into your soulmate if they weren’t your soulmate to begin with.

Individuals have both free will and a deep down knowing of what is authentic to them, what is in their best interest. And with that free will and authentic self, every individual identifies who is, and who isn’t their soulmate.

We can try to influence the person we want in our life. We can do whatever we want to attract them to us, but in the end the relationship is bound to disappoint all concerned. Core values won’t be shared, or passions and priorities won’t be shared, interests will be very different. And over time, these differences could turn into major frustrations.

However, what the Law of Attraction can do, what it is exceptionally brilliant in doing, is helping us attract our soulmate. That person that ticks all the boxes, that shares our passions and priorities, that supports our interests, and genuinely deeply, unconditionally loves us. This soulmate may not be our ex, or that person we are longing for but who doesn’t even acknowledge our existence, but they will be the perfect person for us.

So, how can we use the Law of Attraction to attract our soulmate?

There are many ways that the Law of Attraction can help us attract our soulmate:

  • Try visualizing what your life will be like when you are sharing it with your soulmate. What activities are you enjoying together?
  • Script, keep a journal and write about what your life is like with your ideal partner.
  • Make space in your home for someone else. Empty out drawers and cupboard space. Have a second comfy chair, a second place setting, a second toothbrush in the bathroom.
  • But most importantly – Get happy in your own life as it is right now. Drop the need to share your life with someone else and start making your life the best it can be right now. Create the life you dream of so when your soulmate comes into your life, your ideal life will be ready to share with them.